Virginity...

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Quandry for the LJ World:

Virginity...
How sacred is virginity? In giving it to someone do you become irrevocably tied to the person involved? Is there ever a "right" person to give your virginity to? Does the person you give your virginity to have a responsibility to ensure they are the "right" person? How much responsibility does the person receiving the virginity have to make sure the person is "ready" if they say they are?

Comments

[coderlemming.livejournal.com]

I kind of realized after awhile of everyone making a big deal about virginity that it really wasn't. In fact, with two virgins, the act can be downright embarassing and silly. A great way to make that worse is to hold it up on a pedestal, I realized. I like to think about it that the first time doing a certain act with anyone is fun and exciting and to be cherished. It's like losing your virginity over and over, or something. A first kiss with a person is like a whole new first kiss because kissing is always different for each new couple. Kind of takes the pressure off of virginity-losing and first-timing without actually removing the fun and mystique ;) Just my take though.