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So James broke up with me. It wasn't really a big shock. He then started dating Brandi...once again not a big shock. At least when I have insecurities they are about real threats. I suppose it doesn't matter how much I care about him...because things that are supposed to happen do and I wish him the best of luck with her because everyone knows that I won't stay lonely long...LOL
Would someone please explain to me exactly what it is about men that makes them feel they can waltz into my life and completely change me for their whims. I enjoy my life....and yes, I like him too but that doesn't mean I want to change for him. I like my relationships. I like my girlfriends and my boyfriend. I have no desire to give them up for anyone. So why can't he like me the way I am? I suppose that if he insists on this path I will have to refrain from getting involved. There is no way it is fair for him to expect me to drop everything I have worked so hard for just because he beckons in my direction. He's gorgeous...and fun...and thinks I'm intelligent. But he can't get his mind around poly. I think he's not really trying.
Would someone please explain to me exactly what it is about men that makes them feel they can waltz into my life and completely change me for their whims. I enjoy my life....and yes, I like him too but that doesn't mean I want to change for him. I like my relationships. I like my girlfriends and my boyfriend. I have no desire to give them up for anyone. So why can't he like me the way I am? I suppose that if he insists on this path I will have to refrain from getting involved. There is no way it is fair for him to expect me to drop everything I have worked so hard for just because he beckons in my direction. He's gorgeous...and fun...and thinks I'm intelligent. But he can't get his mind around poly. I think he's not really trying.
