*smiles* You are, of course, assuming correctly. And I appreciate that you would take the time to point these things out to me and inform me that his faults are not as bad as I might hear. Rest assured that I am one to always weigh others opinions with the proper amount of salt and to wade in personally to form my own view. And I was trying, horribly I realized after re-reading my post, to determine if the delusions I normally form for myself were currently in place and being satisfied by the fact that they weren't. I by no means believe him to be perfect...but I have no desire to love someone who is. *smiles*